You’re only a drop in the ocean but every drop
counts. However, unlike tiny water drops, we as respectful individuals
are unique beings in so many diverse aspects. To be yourself, you need
to discover yourself ! By impersonating the latest movie star or the most
popular kid in school, you are being a disgrace to none another than
yourself. When you find yourself and learn to be yourself, one fine day
you will fall madly in love with yourself and then, nobody in the whole
world can ever let you down. Remember how miserable you felt while
sporting that mini skirt at the high school ball? All you wanted was to
jump into your track pants and play football with the boys. Yes, you’re
not just another sheep in the flock! You’re the rainbow colored one that
stands out in the crowd! On seeing somebody else prosper and triumph in
all, we assume that by emulating him, we are paving our way to success!
One may say that a mask of gold hides all deformities but do note that
no mask remains! The façade will soon be revealed. So don’t waste your
time masquerading as strangers when we can invest the given time in
developing a pure and genuine personality.
Tips For Being Yourself
So you might be compelled to conform to societal
or esoteric norms to be granted certain privileges and bask in the
sense of belonging. You ought to connect with your inner self and
liberate yourself from all bondages created by society. Discovering the
“real you” is the gradual but therapeutic process which is going to be
worth your time.
Who Are You?
There’s no possible way you can be yourself
without knowing who you really are. You pretend to idolize football
player David Beckham because your neighbor does and you want to gain his
approval. Soon enough you will realize that you don’t know what
interests you because you’ve been whiling away time with what least
interests you. Understand yourself, figure out where your deepest
passion lies and be proud of your qualities. Contemplate your life and
the choices you’ve made. Take personality tests and you will eventually
disentangle the buried mesh of what had been your true interests and
hobbies all along! Accept it with pride.
Forget The World
So what if the person besides you passed a nasty
comment on your outfit. As long as you’re comfortable, does it really
make a difference to your welfare? Or do you hesitate to raise your hand
in class to ask the question that’s persistently been pestering you
simply because you fear your classmates might find it silly and doubt
your intelligence. Why is their opinion even worth it? You should feel
stupid for putting their opinions before your clarity on the subject!
Forget the world, live your life and be yourself. Happiness will be
right behind you.
Breathe & Be Honest
Why do you want to live through the rest of your
life safeguarding your sticky web of lies? Life is never rosy for
anybody. Maybe at the beginning, you might not be as fortunate as
certain other coveted beings. Nevertheless, if you hold your breath and
take each day as it comes, life’s delicate balance will soon manifest
itself. There is no good reason to be ashamed of who you are. Whether
it’s a physical or mental shortcoming, the most trusted way to
overcoming it is by acknowledging it with courage. We are all blighted
with flaws and by hiding them, we are only adding to that list.
Express Your Individuality
The moment self-confidence is on your side, a
beautiful and unique personality will blossom! Standing out isn’t easy
but it usually comes from within. It might be a skill, or a manner of
speaking or infectious charisma. Build up on a character that singles
you out from everybody in your planet. Be yourself. Even oddly colored
slippers might accentuate your eccentric character after which you might
garner admiration from different sides. Don’t be a prototype, be a
proud unique individual.
Believe In Yourself
Take off that hideous mask and unleash the
beauty hidden underneath its eternal ugliness! If you try to be what
you’re not, you’re going to be unhappy through the remainder of your
fake life. Thrive on solitude, engage in soul searching and you will
soon be well acquainted with your new best friend- The Real You. Life
will soon turn into a elongated party interspersed with memorable
episodes of sadness, joy, laughter, bitterness and all the emotions
experienced in the life that is worth living.
See, there’s no reason to fear being yourself! We
will all be adored for who we really are but it has to start with us
accepting ourselves Scopri Power wishes you Good Luck.
- Scopri Power Exclusive
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